Sabtu, 29 Oktober 2011


We are all human and have flaws. Even if your physicalappearance or social skills aren't what you wish they were, that doesn't have to stop you from being confident. 

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    Be an Optimist
    : Think about the good things that may happen if you succeed.
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    Practice: "Practice makes perfect, but nobody is perfect... then why practice?" Well practice improves you skill and makes you mentally ready to handle any situation.
  3. 3
    Try to recall good memories: Try to remember when you handled a tough situation and came out triumphantly.
  4. 4
    Try to do easy things and win: If you play video-games play a round in easy difficulty. Or just do anything in which you can hope to win easily. This gives you confidence and makes your mind steady.
  5. 5
    Drink water: Water is the elixir of life. Just don't drink too much.
  6. 6
    Have a good sleep: It makes you brain fully functional and removes lethargy.
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    Be Aggressive: If you get beaten you can always go to the hospital. I mean to say that if you fail you can try again. There is always tomorrow.
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    If you are going for something big gang up with your(trustworthy) friends: Yes, I mean Trustworthy.
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    Clean your mind before the showdown: Think about what you have to do rather than the ifs and elses of what would happen if you win or lose.
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    Write a list of all the things that you were before your "fresh start" of being confident: For example: "I was shy and couldn't talk to strangers." Then tear the list into pieces and scrunch them up in the bin. That was the old you, now convince yourself to be confident and talkative etc. Once you've told yourself this, you can now pretend it's impossible for you to return to your old ways because they've been ripped up and discarded.
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    Also write a list of all the things you will benefit from when you are confident: For example: "I will gain more friends." Press the list to your heart and pretend that it's the new you. Hide the list somewhere, and know that until you rip it up this is your new personality which is impossible to be changed. It may sound crazy, but if you really convince yourself and believe then it may just work!
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    Be determined to change: If you're not, you will probably just return to your old, shy ways. You must want to be confident.
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